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The number one biggest power move you can make is to actually walk away. When you walk away, you signify and signal value out and that is extremely attractive to other people.

And in this video, I'm gonna show you exactly why walking away is the biggest power move you can make. I'm gonna show you what not to do and why the opposite of that ends up pushing them away.

And also, I'm gonna show you the mistakes to avoid when doing this. Because when done correctly, not only will you feel safe within yourself, you feel like you don't need anyone else to come around and you'll maintain your power, and that changes everything as a reflection.

Now, this reminds me of a experience in my own life where I used to do the opposite of this. What I would do is, I would be in a relationship with somebody, and especially, I remember this in the first relationship I was ever in, where I would choose someone sometimes, that also wasn't entirely choosing me.

And what I would then do is if they would pull back at all I would then think there was something wrong with me. And I would try to change that and I would try to control the situation.

And by being overly like alert to what they wanted, to what they needed, by reaching out to them, it would then actually push them away and have the opposite effect.

But in the first relationship I ever had, I learned the power of walking away and it had the opposite effect of what I actually thought. So what happened was, this was one of my first relationships.

From seven to 15, I had like no freedom at all, wasn't allowed to date, wasn't allowed to go to school dances or anything like that, had a controlling ex-stepmom in my life, my dad divorced her when I was 15 years old.

All of a sudden, I have all this freedom. At about 17, that was when I had my first girlfriend. And it was a relationship where it was like I wasn't fully being chosen and I was okay with that. I was like staying in the relationship.

I remember at one point there was this school dance and instead of us going to the school dance together, she went with an ex-boyfriend and a lot of her friends and other people were like, "That's so messed up."

I didn't even think it was that. I was just like, "Oh, well that's just I'm not worthy," or something like that. And it was a dynamic where I felt like once again, there's something wrong with me.

And what ended up happening through this, is it was mainly because at that time, from seven to 15, I wasn't allowed to have friends. I didn't have as much social emotional maturity and I didn't have many friends at the time.

That was one of the reasons, I think, that relationship was so meaningful is 'cause I literally had no other friends or no other friend group for the most part.

What ended up happening is as her and I weren't really working out and we were like not together anymore, after a period of time, I started making new friends.

I started to expand my social circle. Then what happened is, there was another girl that I was interested in that actually liked me.

What ended up happening, ironically enough, is as I was moving into that, as I completely let go and I walked away from the situation because I started to understand my own sense of self-worth, and also at the time, I then would hear from other girls in high school and stuff that they were attracted to my brother and I, because we were actually then allowed to actually have our own look.

We grew out our hair. We were able to dress the way that we wanted because from seven to 15, it was very strict. We had to shave our head. It was like military almost. I started to realize, "Oh, I'm actually worthy," or not only am I worthy just 'cause of the external stuff but I started to feel more worthy within myself.

I remember that as I started to come to this conclusion, this awareness, I completely cut ties and let that go.

As I walked away from that, as I let that go, I remember at one point I got a call and this person was really desiring to get back together.

They really cared about me, It all of a sudden, brought all of this dynamic to where then they started to understand and become aware of my own sense of value.

And I'll never forget that, because it was when I completely let go and I started to choose myself, and then I started to recognize my own sense of worth within myself, and I started to expand my social group and I stopped putting all the attention on that, that's when the energy completely reverted and then all of a sudden that attraction was there again.

Even in a different way, at other times, even more recently, like the last five or six years, where I was in a relationship.