Many theologians agree that the way God loves his children is a kind of black swan; because the love of the Lord is radically different from the human way in which we love. Unlike us, the Father loves those unworthy of being loved and does not love us according to our merits. He does not wait until our moral lives are in order before He can love us. His love is unconditional and scandalous. God loves us as we are and not as we should be! His arms are always extended; It is we who sometimes stray from Him.