CW: I do discuss my personal mental health and history with SH at times in this video.
Hi all, today we're discussing a video from Tiktok which was reuploaded to Youtube here:    • “I was a mean girl in high school, le...   I'm a little late discussing this but it took me a couple of weeks to actually film this when I got ill and lost my voice, sorry!

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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/arti...
https://www.youngminds.org.uk/young-p...
https://www.nationalbullyinghelpline....
https://learning.nspcc.org.uk/safegua...
https://anti-bullyingalliance.org.uk/

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0:00 Intro
5:00 A Personal Rant About Growth
18:30 You're Not A Silly Goose
21:18 Just 'Get Over It'
25:01' But, Like, What If They Deserve It?'
30:49 Being Approachable
37:30 The Epitome of the Dunning-Kruger Effect
40:20 Heartless: 'Get A Life, Go Make Money'
49:01 Bullying HAS To Happen