Sexless marriage causes- recover from sexual rejection and avoidance issues in couples counseling
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 Published On Mar 7, 2024

Are you struggling painful, emotional aspects of being in a sexless marriage and feeling distant and rejected? Do you wish you felt more comfortable and confident expressing your sexuality? Have you both, for many years, only felt a connection as roommates, rather than as flirty, playful partners? It can feel lonely, be sad, and a grief experience to find yourself in a sexless marriage. Parts of you wonder if the stress of building your careers, growing your business, parenting, caring for elderly parents, and personal stress detracted from your sex life. Long ago, you remember moments of sexual pleasure, sexual suspense, excitement, and playful erotic energy together. But, now, you don't know how to get the fireworks and sexual pleasure back in your marriage. Sexless marriage counseling for low sex drive and sexual rejection supports rebuilding spice, passionate, sexual tension, playfulness, and flirty vibes.

Katie Ziskind, relationship coach, certified sex therapy informed professional, Gottman level two marriage therapist, sex and intimacy specialist, helps couples rebuild emotional connection and sexual intimacy.

In addition to wanting a better sex life, you notice that there are also emotional expression issues in your marriage you want help with.

There are many pieces to the pie when it comes to rebuilding sexual chemistry, physical intimacy, sexual desire, and sexual confidence.

Working with Katie Ziskind, sex and intimacy specialist, you and your partner can learn skills to repair conflict, connect emotionally, and build a foundation for a secure, sexual bond. Emotional closeness and emotional bonding skills are not tools many people learn growing up.

Stress and always living in a state of panic and chaos takes away from your hormone reserves to make sex hormones.

As well, growing up in a culture that emphasized absence culture, created shame and guilt around sex, and fear-based messages can influence you sexual openness in your marriage. There are many components and aspects to rebuilding intimacy.

Growing up with parents who don't show affection can make it more challenging to be physically affectionate in your marriage. As well, yelling, anger issues, conflicts, the silent treatment, and criticism negatively impact your sex life. You are not alone if you are feeling frustration with the state of yoru sexual, intimate life.

Want sex and intimacy focused couples therapy to break the sexless pattern and go beyond roommates?

Marriage is not always pudding, jello, and positive moments. But, when you feel distant, you begin to question the sacred bond between you both. Sexless marriage counseling for low sex drive and sexual rejection can help you create more love, trust, and mutual understanding. It can be a kick to your self-esteem to find yourself in a sexless marriage.

However, for some, the vision of your future becomes clouded by the stark reality of emotional disconnection that shows up as a sexless marriage.

To add, the absence of physical intimacy can lead to a plethora of painful and emotional challenges for you both. When you are your spouse feel like roommates, it can feel like a big part is missing from your marriage. Rather than the flirty, passionate, and playful you once were, you are stuck in a sexual stand off right now.

You may begin to question your attractiveness as a result of no longer being desired sexually. As well, you may question if you spouse is having an affair or being unfaithful due to their disinterest in sex. You feel confused as to where the sexual insecurities have come from and how to get sexual confidence back.

There is sadness and grief that comes with feeling sexually unwanted and rejected. Katie Ziskind, relationship coach, certified sex therapy informed professional, Gottman level two marriage therapist, sex and intimacy specialist, specializes with couples who need help building emotional and sexual intimacy.

Feeling like you don't matter, that you are misunderstood, ignored, unwanted, due to the lack of sexual desire and lack of physical touch?

You might be sleeping in separate rooms because you feel so disconnected. Or, you may still be sharing a bed with your spouse, who you once cherished deeply, only to feel a gaping void of loneliness. You don't know how to close this painful emotional gap and speak about your unfulfilled desires.

You might even feel lost and trapped in your sexless marriage. What was once a source of comfort and passion has now become a source of frustration and resentment. Sexless marriage counseling for low sex drive and sexual rejection gives you a safe space to verbalize sexual needs.

Without sexual expression, you become cohabitants in the same space who share a mortgage. Sexless marriage counseling for low sex drive and sexual rejection with Katie Ziskind supports prioritizing healthy conversations about sexual needs and urges.

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